What do I do...... I have been going out with this girl for over two years now but I do not see my self staying with her forever.

I guess it's mostly because she is very young and has had many sexual partners. I cannot get myself to giving more to the relationship because I almost feel disgusted. I was always raised to be with a decent girl, that respects herself and others, but this girl............well............. I don't know how I let myself fall for her.

But, the twist is that she treats me very well. She takes care of me and she is very much in love with me. I know it. She knows how I feel and now we are having problems. She is being cold and I can surely say that I miss her but that thought of her with so many people, even other girls, just puts the brakes on things. I guess I'm weird for having these mixed up emotions but I do not know what to do. All my friends know that she has been very promiscuous in the past and the thought of them talking about me with a "little ho" just terrifies me.

I am 30 and she is 23, what do I do ??????

The first thing you need to do is have your doctor check you for sexually transmitted diseases and insist that she be tested also, especially if you intend to continue your relationship with her. If she has discontinued that type of behavior and takes care of you and loves you, then perhaps counseling would help you put her past behind you as she has and be happy with her.

As far as your "friends" go...if you are happy with your decision to stay with her or leave..it is your decision that you have to live with..not theirs.