I have been involved with someone for 5 months. The first two months were wonderful. He included me in everything that he participated in and vice versa. Communication was never an issue either. Lately, he has not invited me to anything and when he does, he doesn't pay me much attention. When I confronted him, he denied everything. When I suggested breaking it off, he seemed very upset, told me that I was the ideal woman for him, that he loved me, and the list goes on and on. In fact, the things that he told me are things that no other man has ever expressed to me. Unfortunately, I still feel uneasy. I paged him last night at 8:30 PM. No response. When he called today, he didn't even mention the page. I didn't mention it either. I feel that he is trying to push me away so that he doesn't have to just come out and tell me to move on. I am 30 years old and I am a divorcee. I have dated two men since my divorce. He is the second. I am normally a good judge of character and I have never had a problem walking away from a bad situation. For some reason, I cannot just walk away from him mainly because I am unsure. I have no proof. I don't want to appear to be a nag. Do I need to go with my woman's intuition and leave him alone? I don't want to make a hasty or wrong decision based on speculation. Please give me some honest advice. If you need more information, I am willing to submit that also.

I don't think I need any more information. My suggestion would be to quit calling and paging him. He seems to want to be with you when it's convenient for him. There is no way of knowing what else he is doing or if he is seeing someone else, but as long as you are calling and paging you can be sure that he will call back when no one else is available.

What you have told me is proof enough that you have a fair weather friend. Quit calling him and be busy when he does call you. Find other friends and activities to keep yourself busy and in a position to meet new people. Rely on your good judge of character and your ability to walk away from bad situations and you will know when Mr. Right has come along.