I've been dating a really decent man for over two years, off and on I should say. He was recently divorced when we met online, through a chat room and felt totally attached. He and I have so much in common from the past, that we felt like we knew each other way back when. He even called me his "angel" due to a bad accident I was in before we met.

But now he has pulled away again, just because I said the wrong thing when offered a meal at his house. I told him I wasn't hungry, but he thought I was. He got upset, but said nothing. The next day he took me home, and I haven't seen him since. That was about 2 or 3 weeks ago.

He emailed me that it was time to end it because I made him feel "out of form" in his own house. I don't know what he meant, but I don't think he was right. After all, he keeps looking at pictures of thin, beautiful women at online sites, and even uses them as desk tops. He actually pulled away about 11 times or more in the two years we've dated. Friends and family tell me to forget him, but I've tried and just can't. He is the only man I've ever felt this close to and love with all my heart.

If he won't write back through regular mail or email me, doesn't call me and I never see him since he lives quite a distance away and I don't have transportation, what should I do? Other then say good-bye!!!!

Listen to your friends and family and most of all listen to yourself. This man has dumped you about 11 times in the past two years for one reason or another and your not sure why. The most recent excuse that he used was because you said you weren't hungry. Life with this man would be constantly walking on eggs, afraid to say anything for fear that he would dump you again. That's not a life.

I don't think his looking at pictures on the internet has much to do with it, but it seems like about once a month he has another agenda that doesn't include you. With you living a distance away and not having transportation, I would bet that he has a few other ladies on the string also.

Get involved in activities closer to home and give yourself a chance to meet other people. Block this man's email and stay as far away from him as you can. He is a loser and would bring you nothing but grief.