Angel..
If a man has no kids with his wife and he's unhappy, why does he stay with her? If the answer is because he loves her... well then if he loves her then how can he keep having another relationship with someone else? And also, how do you end a relationship with a man that works at the same place you do? You see him around there and some of the people there know his wife, so he doesn't take breaks with you, afraid it will get back to her. Angel, what do you do when you're in this situation??? It would be different if we didn't work at the same place, then I could get over him. He only sees me when he wants to, and the very seldom times that we are together - we have sex and then he says he needs to go because he has things to do. I know if I needed anything (money or whatever) he would get it for me.. he says he cares about me, so I keep hanging on... I've tried dating other men hoping that I would meet someone and get over him, but whoever I go out with - my hearts with him (the man). How can I get out of this when we work together and I love him so much.. and am so drawn to him? I've been so down and unhappy Angel, this is taking a toll on me.. and is very Unhealthy. Any suggestions from you would be very appreciated.

Unhealthy is an understatement. Get out of the fog and look at what he has. A wife and a mistress that he has no problem keeping quiet. He is not going to leave his wife for you, and as long as he can give you a few bucks now and then and spend some "time" with you, things aren't going to change.

Get some help to see this jerk for what he is. If you still can't handle working in the same place with him….find another job and run as fast as you can away from him. This man is a user and bad news from the word go.