My girlfriend, whom I deeply love and am passionately dedicated to, cannot stand either of my two roommates. I believe that this aggression stems from a deep seated insecurity and jealousy issue. I have known my roommates for several years, and am very close to both of them. Not only are they my housemates; they are two of my closest friends. This is causing severe ripples in my life. She complains of (among many other things) 1) not having enough "Romantic Time" with me, 2) not being able to rest due to the noise in the middle of the night due to their weekend parties 3) of them treating me unfairly (ie: I clean the house for them, etc). This issue has been suppressed for several months now, and came to a head just this past week. Because of this, one of my roommates has left, and the other is about to. Despite our best efforts to appease all parties, it seems all hope is lost. I do not agree with most of my girlfriend's arguments. My roommates live There and they have every right to be as loud or rude as they want. It is their home, and she has no right to complain. On the other hand, I am committed to my girlfriend and her happiness. I do not want to lose two of my best friends at the altar of my girlfriend. But I refuse to lose my girlfriend over a simple misunderstanding. Am I wrong? What should I do? Is there anything I can do to salvage my relationships?
Please help

Unless they pay all the bills, why do you stay with these room mates that are loud and crude and clean house for them?

Best friends or not, if you want to salvage your relationship with this lady, go find an apartment and move out. Insecurity and jealousy may or may not be an issue here. If they are loud and noisy and interfere with your time with her, I can't fault her for being upset, but there are other alternatives. You are the only one that can decide what you want in life. If you own the house and want to be with her, explain the situation to your friends. If they are true friends then they will find places of their own and let you go on with your relationship with her.