Do you know of any information on those who divorce and then re-marry? I am considering going back to my "X" husband of 25 years. Five years ago, we divorced due to an affair he was unwilling to give up. Now his demeanor has changed. He no longer angers easily and is very compassionate towards others.

He is open minded to not being judgmental or criticizing. Seems to know his own life limitations (boundaries) and has matured as a humble, kind, but strong man. Any information you may post will greatly assist me. Thank you.

From one who is happy for "Angels"?

I don't know of any written information on the subject, but I think I can give you a couple of things to think about.

One thing that you didn't say is whether or not you love him. It's easy to say that he has changed and that you can make a life together, but I don't have any statistics one way or another.

He had an affair that he was unwilling to give up at the time. Are you sure that you have totally forgiven him for that and are able to keep it in the past and not bring it up? Are you sure that can trust him again?

If you have open communication with him, trust and love, the next 25 years could be wonderful for both of you.