If I Really Cared

If I Really Cared . . .

I'd look you in the eyes when you talk to me
I'd think about what you're saying
rather than what I'm going to say next;
I'd here your feelings as well as your words.

If I really cared . . .
I'd listen without defending;
I'd hear without deciding whether you're right or wrong;
I'd ask you why, not just how and when and where.

If I really cared . . .
I'd allow you inside of me;
I'd tell you my hopes, my dreams, my fears, my hurts;
I'd tell you where I've blown it and when I've made it.

If I really cared . . .
I'd laugh with you but not at you;
I'd talk with you and not to you;
And I'd know when it's time to do neither.

If I really cared . . .
I wouldn't climb over your walls;
I'd hang around until you let me in the gate.
I wouldn't unlock your secrets;
I'd wait until you handed me the key.

If I really cared . . .
I'd love you anyhow;
But I'd ask for the best that you can give
And gently draw it from you.

If I really cared . . .
I'd put my scripts away,
And leave my solutions at home.
The performances would end.
We'd be ourselves.

Ruth Senter

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